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What to Expect During an STD Screening

Sunday, September 24th, 2017

From time to time, it’s a good idea for a man to undergo an STD screening. This is true if a man is enjoying the company of more than one sexual partner, if he isn’t sure that his partner is monogamous (or if he is not), or if he’s thinking about unprotected sex with a steady partner for the first time. Men should consider STD screening an integral part of penis care, not something that can be overlooked or put off!

What happens during an STD screening?

For many men, the thought of a strange messing around with their junk is the stuff of nightmares – even if that inspection happens in a medical setting. Here’s what a guy can expect:

1. A ton of questions. A guy will be asked a multitude of questions, and some of them might seem to be asking for ‘too much information.’ A doctor will need to know about a man’s sexual history, how many partners he has had recently (or ever), what kind of sexual activity he engages in and any health issues that might have arisen during those encounters. The doctor will ask blunt questions and expect frank answers. This is not the time to be coy!

2. A physical examination. A guy can expect to have his equipment explored a bit by the physician. This will include a visual examination for any lesions, irritations, bumps, bruises, sores and the like. It will also include a physical examination in which the doctor will touch the penis and surrounding area. The goal is to find any lumps or bumps that can’t be seen, only felt.

3. Swabs and urine tests. During an STD screening, the doctor might want to take samples for examination by a laboratory. In order to do this, swabbing is typically used. This means using an instrument that looks very much like a Q-tip, passing it over and around any questionable areas to pick up a variety of cells from that area, and then sending those cells to the lab for examination. A man might also be used to provide a urine sample.

4. Blood testing. Blood tests are extremely helpful in STD screening, as they pick up infections that might be latent in the body – meaning that there are no outward signs of it at the moment. Herpes is a good example of this. A man who is having an active outbreak shows signs of the problem, but during the times between outbreaks, it can be impossible to tell a man has herpes simply by looking at him. A blood test, however, can reveal the truth.

5. More invasive examinations. A man who is dealing with a particular issue might undergo more invasive testing. For instance, a guy who engages in regular anal play and complains of bleeding or pain in that area might be examined there to figure out what the problem might be. However, rest assured that the doctor will be gentle and try to cause as little embarrassment as possible. Doctors have seen it all, so nothing a guy says will shock them or make them view him differently.

Staying healthy

A man who is worried about STDs should take special care to prevent the problem by using condoms whenever he has sex with a new partner, ensuring he is in a monogamous relationship before going without protection, and getting STD screening on a regular basis, regardless of his relationship status.

When it comes to penis health, a man can also make great strides toward better penis care with a good penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Though no crème can prevent a sexually transmitted disease, the regular application of a crème indicates good penis hygiene; and that means a man will be faster to catch the first signs of an STD if he does contract one. A guy should look for a luxurious combination of Shea butter and vitamin E, as well as other nutrients and vitamins, to ensure his penis skin stays in tip-top shape.

Sex With An Older Woman – Seize the Opportunity and Live the Fantasy

Sunday, September 24th, 2017

Sex with an older woman is a fantasy that most guys have had and continue to dream about. You might have had a soft spot for a mature teacher when you were at school developing into a full crush for your senior school mistresses. Pretty sure that wasn’t just me!

I grew up in the 80s and the women teachers that taught me were very sexy and attractive, to me any way. I’m sure that they knew the effect they were having on a hundred young teenage boys in their care for 6 hours per day.

Be Open-Minded and Invite in Opportunity

Be open-minded, fearless and always welcome opportunity and challenges into your life in general but especially in sex and relationships. Life will throw so many fabulous opportunities at you that if you are inhibited, fearful or prejudiced you’ll reject them because of your own personal hang ups. One day soon, not too far away, you’ll wake up and regret that you failed to seize those chances.

When you have a clear mind, you’ll discover opportunities abound everywhere, but especially with women and sex. Welcome approaches from women of all cultures, colours and classes. You should approach women of all sizes, body shapes and social standing. Don’t be rude to any lady, no matter what. Period! Remember, the best women do NOT look like Angelina Jolie.

Sex with An Older Woman Is the Stuff of Dreams

Sex with an older woman is the stuff of fantasy for most young men who sadly never get to experience the joys and utter satisfaction that an experienced, mature and sexually confident woman can give. A younger woman does not yet have the authority and calm confidence that an older woman has.

A mature woman will ‘know’ what to do. She will guide you to become a better lover. She’ll educate you to become a greater sexual partner. She’ll show you what she likes and you’ll learn the things that turn you on. It’s a voyage of discovery and revelations.

Most mature women will be eager to try out new sexy things and more open to sex experimentation, game-play or role-play. She’ll encourage you to be bold and push barriers so you both experience new heights of emotions. As a learner, novice sex partner, you’ll get the chance to try things with an older woman that you might be embarrassed about or reluctant to do with a girlfriend of your own age. I was able to perform anal and threesomes with the mature women that I had the good fortune to be with. They loved it and encouraged me to be bolder and more inventive. I’ll write about the Princess Leia and Darth Vader outfits another time. Wink, Wink!

She’s Not After Your Life

Sex with an older woman is a sure-fire way to boost your ego, self-confidence and super-charge your self-esteem. What a badge of honour! Your new-found confidence will permeate through every aspect of your life. You’ll be more confident around people, especially girls. You’ll see improvements in your affairs with business and your social life will be boosted.

Most mature women who have taken a younger lover are not after your ‘life’. She’s not looking for a husband, or to settle down with you and have a family; she’s not looking for a long-term commitment from you. She’s doesn’t need you to look after her. She just wants you to sexually satisfy her… and come back for more. And then come back again.

Older woman turn to younger guys for sexual satisfaction for a number of reasons but ‘love’ is rarely high up. She may be a divorcee or have an absent husband or no husband. She may be a free spirit seeking uncomplicated sex or she may just be your neighbour from a few doors along, who just wants a good seeing to! Don’t ever judge and never over analyse, jump in and seize the opportunity.

She knows the ‘older woman, younger man’ relationship won’t last forever and she’ll make the best of the time you have together. You should do the same too. Enjoy the fabulous feeling of satisfying a mature woman who you are with. Take pride in the fact that she chose to have sex with you. Be proud that you have given her many days of sexual pleasure and be grateful for the education that you have received.

A Great Start to Life

As a young guy, starting in life, this experience of sex with an older woman will prove invaluable in later life. It helped me to form strong, healthy relationships with women of all ages and all over the world. I am firmly of the belief that my experiences allowed me to more fully appreciate women and to become a better partner myself.